Every
year, my brother sends Christmas presents through the mail. And every year, he has the words, “Don’t open
until Christmas,” printed on each package.
He
does this because when he first started sending us Christmas packages, we would
open them up on the day we received them, even if it was a week or two early. And it would really bother him when we would
break the news to him that we had already opened his gifts before Christmas. Who doesn’t want Christmas to come a little
early?
Well,
for those of you who don’t like to wait for Christmas, I have some really good
news for you! We get to open up a
different Christmas present each Sunday from this large wrapped Christmas
box! These are Christmas gifts that God
wants us to have even before Christmas Day arrives. Each week, a child or youth who is involved
in our children and youth ministries will open the Christmas box on our behalf.
For this
1st Sunday, I need a volunteer to open the Christmas
box.
Today’s Christmas gift is the gift of Mary, the mother of Jesus. Mary is the right person to symbolize this gift since she received the unexpected and very surprising news that she was with child.
[Volunteer Lifts the Mary Figurine from the Box]
Today’s Christmas gift is the gift of Mary, the mother of Jesus. Mary is the right person to symbolize this gift since she received the unexpected and very surprising news that she was with child.
Every
year on the first Sunday of Advent, the Gospel reading has this theme of
expectation. It’s the scripture where
Jesus is telling his disciples to expect great things to happen. He tells them to be alert at all times and to
know that the kingdom of God is at hand.
The Kingdom of God is just around the corner. It’s breaking in even as we speak. Don’t blink because you just might miss it!
Jesus
tells us that the way to receive the gift of expectation is to be alert. Be ready.
Expect the unexpected.
In my
previous church before coming to Athens, I was asked to be part of the church
float for the big holiday parade which was on the Saturday before Thanksgiving. They needed more people so I innocently said,
“Sure, I’ll help.”
Little did I know what I was getting myself into! I was then told that I would have a costume
for me to wear. No problem, right?
So
here’s my picture of me wearing that holiday parade costume. Someone said I looked like a frozen Rod
Stewart. My make-up included a lot of
sparkles around my eyes. Do you know how
hard it is to get rid of those sparkles?
I had a wedding that day, and the bride and groom chose not to include
me in their pictures!
The
theme of our float was “Joy to the World” complete with dancers, singers, and
people like me who handed out candy and church invitations. Here’s a picture of Mary and Joseph and the
“Joy to the World” singers behind them.
The
Christmas gift of expectation is the gift that helps us to be more like Mary
and to be ready for the unexpected thing that God wants to do through us, even
if that means wearing a crazy costume.
Roswell
United Methodist Church in Atlanta has opened the Christmas gift of
expectation. Twenty years ago, one of their Sunday School classes started a
conversation with, “What If.” From
there, they began a ministry for the developmentally disabled. Let’s watch a video about their ministry.
Opening
the Christmas gift of expectation is exciting because when we live out our
faith knowing that the kingdom of God is at hand, incredible things happen.
Miracles happen. We are able to reach
out to more and more people with the good news of Jesus Christ.
Mary
was the first person to open the Christmas gift of expectation when the angel
told her that she was with child of the Holy Spirit. She knew that the kingdom of God was at hand,
even within her own womb!
I’m
also impressed that Mary, as a young teenage woman, was able to persevere
through the challenges that came to her as a result of her pregnancy. Think of the rumors, the gossiping, and the
ridicule that she endured as she waited patiently for the birth of her child. It’s not always easy to open the gift of
expectation, is it?
I
want to list four barriers that can keep us from opening the gift of
expectation in this Season of Advent.
Pride
And
the first barrier is our pride. While
Mary was planning for her wedding and this exciting transition in her life, God
interrupted her plans with this news that she was with child of the Holy
Spirit. Things didn’t go as originally
planned by Mary. Have you ever noticed
how God has no problem in messing with our carefully planned out lives? Christmas is a time to remember that it’s not
about us. It’s about what God wants to
do in and through us.
One
of the greatest lines in all of scripture is when Mary responded to the angel
by saying, “Here am I, the servant of the
Lord: let it be with me according to your word.” Mary didn’t let her pride get in the way of
receiving the holy gift of expectation.
Cynicism
The
second barrier is cynicism. This is when
we say negative things like, “It will
never work like that for me?” Or, “It will never work here in our church.” Or, “God
can’t possibly use me to make a difference like that.” Cynics always find ways to keep the
expectations so low that we can’t possibly fail. But failure isn’t the worst thing that can
happen to us. Not trying and responding
to God’s voice is.
Mary
was willing to take some risks in order to respond to God’s calling in her
life.
Apathy
A
third barrier is apathy. Do you know the
difference between ignorance and apathy?
“I don’t know and I don’t care!”
The opposite of love is not hate. It’s apathy.
Apathy is when we simply don’t care.
And if we don’t care, then why would we want to open the gift of
expectation to include more things that we probably don’t care about?
The
story of Christmas is a story of God’s tremendous compassion for the
world. God risked everything by sending
us Jesus. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son.”
Distraction
And a
fourth barrier is a more subtle barrier and this is the barrier of
distraction. This is when we put off
responding to God because we are so caught up in our usual pre-holiday
busyness. The problem is that we never
do get around to responding to God’s calling because there’s always another
distraction.
Since
the kingdom of God is at hand, we need to set aside any distraction that would
keep us from the urgency of this present reality. This Advent season, think about setting aside
the things that on the surface may seem important to do, but in reality, are
things that are just keeping us from opening the Christmas gift of expectation.
Maybe
you can think of some other barriers that keep us from opening this incredible
gift. I believe that one of the reasons
why Mary didn’t let these barriers get in her way of opening the gift of expectation
was something that the angel told her when she found out that she was with
child.
The
angel said to her, “For nothing will be
impossible with God.”
Since
today is the first Sunday of the month, we will be celebrating the Sacrament of
Holy Communion. When we receive the sacrament of communion in December, it kind
of feels like we’re getting ahead of ourselves.
I
mean, here, we’re supposed to be getting ready for the birth of Christ during
these weeks of December, but on this day, when we receive communion, we’re
already focusing on the events of Holy Week when Jesus was with his disciples
in the Upper Room and shared the cup and the bread with them.
But
think of it this way. When those disciples were with Jesus during that Passover
Meal, just think how surprised they must have been when Jesus changed the
script for that special meal.
When
Jesus lifted the bread, he did the unexpected when he referred to that bread as
his body. And when he lifted the cup, he told the disciples that this was his
blood.
Jesus
was helping them to see that his death on the cross would be the means by which
salvation and forgiveness of sins would be accomplished. Even during those last
couple days of his life, Jesus was helping the disciples to open the gift of
expectation.
God
is always doing a new thing. A disciple’s denial will lead to forgiveness. A
cross will give way to an empty tomb.
God
can take any barrier in our lives, even the barriers of our own making, and
turn them into something good.
Like
the angel told Mary, “For nothing will be
impossible with God.”
On
this first Sunday of Advent, Mary reminds us to open the gift of expectation.
Outside the Box: The Gift of Expectation
Small Group Questions
Jeremiah 33:14-16 & Luke 21:25-36
December 3, 2017
During these four weeks of Advent, we will be opening a Christmas gift each week to help us prepare for the coming of Christ into the world. The first gift that we open is the gift of expectation. Mary, the mother of Jesus is a symbol of this gift because she was open to new thing that God was about to do.
What helps you to stay alert for the new thing that God wants to do in and through you, not just as we prepare for Christmas but for any time of the year?
Pastor Robert mentioned four possible barriers that can keep us from opening the gift of expectation during this season of Advent. These include the barriers of pride, cynicism, apathy, and distraction.
Which of these four barriers do you struggle with the most in your faith? How can opening the gift of expectation help you to overcome these common barriers?
The bible is filled with examples of how God is always doing a new thing. For example, at the Last Supper, Jesus redefined the meaning of the Passover meal when he said, "This is my body and this is my blood." This new understanding of the Passover meal, led to Jesus offering his life on the cross which then led to the good news of Easter and the resurrection.
Share a recent time where you experienced God doing a new thing in your life? Did it take you by surprise? What was your initial reaction? What was the outcome of this new thing or is it too early to tell?
Close your time by saying in unison this awesome promise of scripture where the angel reassures Mary by saying, "For nothing will be impossible with God."
"For nothing will be impossible with God!"
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