Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. And as you know, there are all kinds of cards that you can buy for that special person in your life.
But sometimes, these cards can be a little too honest. I would strongly advise you to not buy any of
these cards even if the messages reflect your true feelings toward your loved
one.
So for example, even if this card expresses your true sentiments do not under
any circumstances give your loved one this Valentine’s Day card:
And definitely do not give your sweetie this card:
I don’t even want to think about
what was going through this guy’s mind when he bought this card:
I don’t care how much this card reflects your true feelings, do not even
think about buying this card:
Stay away from this card because it’s not going to go over very well:
And last, but not least, if this card expresses your true feelings about
your relationship with your loved one, I’m here to tell you that you need to
rethink what you’re doing.
Total honesty might not always be the way to go when buying a
Valentine’s Day card, but it’s something that we need to always think about if
we want to be the people that God has called us to be. There are times in our
lives that we need someone who can lovingly point out areas of our lives that
need reexamining.
All of us have blind spots that prevent us from seeing who we really are
and who God wants us to become. Just like cars have blind spots that keep us
from seeing another car passing by us in the other lane, we too, can be blocked
from seeing our true selves.
I have a car that has one of those small blind spot mirrors as part of
my side mirror to help me see cars in the other lane that I wouldn’t be able to
see without it. It’s designed to keep me
from having to turn my head so that I can keep my eyes on the road. It took
some time for me to learn to trust these little blind spot mirrors, but they
are very helpful.
The
Old Testament prophets, like the prophet Isaiah, served as blind spot mirrors
for the people of Israel. Their role was to help God’s people see what they weren’t
able to see with their own eyes, or more likely, what they refused to see with
their own eyes.
Being a prophet was a very lonely life. They weren’t the type of people to
invite to social events because people knew that they would be the Debbie
Downers of the party. Nobody wants to be confronted about their unethical
practices and behavior when they’re trying to mingle by the punch bowl. Pretty
soon, prophets are shown the door and asked to never come back again.
Prophets specialize in truth-telling and they’re not the kind of people
who back down easily. After all, they are the mouthpieces of God. They have
been given a fresh word from God that will most likely not go over so well when
they open their mouths. They know to not take rejection personally since they
are just the messengers making a delivery.
Isaiah was one of those lonely prophets. In our Old Testament scripture
reading, he tells the people of God something they probably already knew but
didn’t want to hear. He tells them that they are rebellious and do not have the
right attitude in how they are practicing their faith.
Serving as one of those blind spot mirrors, Isaiah calls it like it is.
He says that they are just going through the motions in their worship of God
and that is unacceptable. They show up
for worship every week, but their actions don’t match their words the rest of
the week. They are what we would call Sunday Christians.
No wonder then, that today’s Gospel reading is from Matthew chapter 6
where Jesus gives specific instructions on the meaning of true faith. It’s not
just about outward displays of being religious. Anybody can do that. True faith
is when we live in such a way that points away from ourselves and toward God.
These kinds of comments got Jesus into trouble. Like Isaiah, Jesus also
saw himself as a prophet, a spokesperson of God. His challenging words and
teachings even contributed to him getting crucified on a cross. We don’t always
like it when someone puts a mirror in front of us. It can be a painful
experience.
I met with another pastor over lunch this past summer. He told me about
someone in his congregation who was racist in some of the things he said. He
said how he had tried to point out to him how his comments and actions
regarding people of color were un-very un-Christlike and inappropriate, but he
just wasn’t getting through to this man.
I said to my friend, “Maybe try a different approach. Have him read
Flannery O’Connor.
Flannery O’Connor wrote several thought provoking short stories out of
the Deep South during the early part of the twentieth century. Her story
entitled, “Revelation” is about what one woman is given to see, a revelation of
her true self through a teenage girl in a doctor’s office waiting room. Ruby
Turbin, the main character in the story, is portrayed as a very judgmental
white woman of the rural south.
Ruby and her husband Claud own a small farm with cotton, hogs, and
soybeans, and a number of black workers. Ruby has taken Claud to the doctor’s
office after a farm accident. Sitting there, she surveys the attributes of
everyone in the waiting room.
As she silently watches the people
in the waiting room, she secretly judges them and categorizes them in her mind.
As she scans the people in that doctor’s waiting room, Ruby thanks God
that she is a good, hard-working, church-going woman, and not like what she
refers to as the white trash, the lunatics, and people of color.
Somehow, one teenage white girl who is waiting with her mother and
brother is able to see through Ruby’s false pretenses. She is able to detect Ruby’s southern
patronizing ways and can hear what she is thinking about each person in the
waiting room.
The girl finally has enough of Ruby’s rude thoughts. She throws a book
at her, physically attacks her and then calls her a “warthog from hell.” The girl is subdued by the doctor and Ruby and
Claude go home.
Like the prophet Isaiah did for the people of Israel, this girl had put
a mirror in front of Ruby who was blinded by her own racist and judgmental
attitudes. Sometimes the reflection in that mirror surprises us because we
aren’t aware that this is who we really are.
That night, Ruby is restless and can’t sleep. All she can think about is
what that girl said and did to her at the doctor’s waiting room. She begins to
cry, but what at first seemed like remorse turns into anger as she wonders why
this girl chose to attack her instead of someone else in that waiting room who
in her mind deserved it way more than she did.
This internal questioning and restlessness was just the beginning of a
transformation that was beginning to take place in Ruby’s life thanks to a
divine revelation that she was about to experience.
The next day there on her farm, Ruby sees a purple streak in the sky.
She notices a swinging bridge coming down out of heaven. And on that bridge
were people going to heaven and they were all so happy.
The
first people in line were the ones who Ruby had looked down upon all her life,
people like the ones she had been judging in that doctor’s waiting room the
previous day. And they were all heading to heaven together.
And at the end of the procession were good and respectable people like
she and Claude, people she thought to be morally superior to anyone else. But
she noticed that as they were heading up to heaven that even their virtues were
being burned away. And as she watched this revelation of God’s grace being
extended to all people, she could hear the crickets on her farm singing,
“Hallelujah!”
And so I said to my friend. Have him read that story and if that doesn’t
work, I don’t know what else to tell you.
Who is your Isaiah? Who are the people in your life who help you to see
your blind spots? Who are the people who help you to experience a revelation
that can bring transformation in your life?
Several years ago, I was part of a men’s share group that met every
other week for breakfast, prayer, and support. They were a great group of guys
and we developed a strong trust level in our group.
During one of our breakfast gatherings, one of the guys in the group
said to me, I don’t know if you’re aware
of this, but last week, you said something during worship that seemed kind of
hurtful toward someone in our church. I know you didn’t mean it that way, but I
just wanted to point it out so you would be aware.
I thought back to what I had said
and I realized how people might have gotten the wrong impression. I could have
said what I said in a different way.
I’m so thankful for this friend who was willing to be my Isaiah in that
moment. He helped me to see one of my blind spots. This was the kind of group
where we could be Isaiahs for each other. We had a high trust level where we
wanted the best for each person in the group.
When Isaiah spoke to the people of Israel, he wanted them to be the
people that God had created them to be. He wanted them to not only worship the
Lord with their lips, but to also live out their faith in the ways they relate
to others.
We too, don’t always live out our faith and we fall short of who God has
called us to be. Our blind spots prevent us from practicing what we preach.
But then an Isaiah comes along. A book hits us on the head. The blind
spots are removed, and we come face to face with the painful truth of who we
really are.
Yes, we are all sinners. But we also discover a God of grace, a God who offers
us love and forgiveness, the same love that is offered to everyone else, even
those we think deserve it the least.
And when our blind spot is finally removed, and if we listen carefully
enough, if we really, really listen, somewhere off in the distance, we too, can
hear the crickets singing, “Hallelujah!”
Who Is Your Isaiah?
Small Group Questions
Isaiah 58:1-9a
February 5, 2017
A key verse from our Old Testament reading is Isaiah 58:3 "Why do you fast but do not see? Why humble ourselves, but
you do not notice? Look, you serve your own interest on your fast day and
oppress all your workers." This verse is trying to point out the blindspots that the people of Israel had that prevented them from doing what was right.
Who are the "Isaiah's" in your life who help you to see and become more aware of possible blind spots in your spiritual life? A good friend? A small group? A scripture passage? Other?
When our blindspots are removed, we are able to see the "thin place" moments of how God is present in our everyday lives.
Share a recent "thin place" moment where you have been able to see God at work in your life in a very real way.
When we serve as "Isaiah's" for each other in helping to remove our blind spots, it's important for us to do this in a way that is loving and Christlike.
Share how your small group members can be "Isaiah's" for each other in a loving and Christlike way.
When we serve as "Isaiah's" for each other in helping to remove our blind spots, it's important for us to do this in a way that is loving and Christlike.
Share how your small group members can be "Isaiah's" for each other in a loving and Christlike way.
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