When I was in the fifth or sixth grade, my best friend, Danny who was like a brother to me came over to my house to hang-out as we so often did that summer together.
During that particular summer, we were
really into building clubhouses. I lived
on a farm and we had plenty of places to build clubhouses.
My favorite clubhouse was one that we
built in a large maple tree in my front yard.
This tree had really big limbs to allow us to build a small floor, four
walls and a roof. It wasn't fancy, but
it served us well.
On one day that summer, we had built a
clubhouse in the middle of our large meadow.
We didn't do a very good job in building it but it did take us a full
day to complete it.
The day after we had built this clubhouse,
Danny came over. And I can't recall all
of the details of what exactly happened, but my friend Danny and I got into an
argument about something.
And Danny decided to tear down the
clubhouse we had just built the day before.
When I saw Danny knocking down the walls of this clubhouse, it was like
I became a different person. Anger set
in and I ran toward Danny and pushed him over.
He pushed me back and before too long, we
were in a fight. Here I was fighting my
best friend. And we were bruising and
scratching each other.
That little incident taught me at an early
age of how fragile relationships can be, even the relationship of best friends.
This morning, we begin a two-part sermon series on Joseph and his brothers as part of our summer long focus on stories from the Book of Genesis.
Our scripture reading this morning shows
us how not to do relationships. It's a
painful verse by verse scripture reading on the lessons of how to have a
dysfunctional family.
One of the reasons why I am convinced that
the Bible is true and can be trusted as the inspired Word of God is because it
is not afraid to reveal the character flaws of the patriarchs and the matriarchs
of our faith. One would expect these
very obvious flaws to be swept under the rug by our holy book.
Instead, the dirty laundry of our biblical
heroes of faith are hung out on the line for all to see.
I mean, what kind of patriarch is Jacob in
this story? "Parenting for Dummies,"
he did not read. No. Instead, he just does what feels natural to
him. If you're drawn to one of your kids
more than with the others, just favor that one over the others.
As I read this scripture I just wish an
angel would send Dr. Phil to Jacob and ask him his famous question - "And how's that working for you?" Or wouldn't you just love to hear Dr. Phil
say to him, "What were you thinking?"
We are told up front that we're going to have
major problems. All you have to do is
read verse 3. "Now Israel, (which was the new name for Jacob) now Israel loved Joseph more than any of
his children” (keep in mind that he has 12 children total) and it goes on
to say that he loved Joseph more because Joseph was his youngest. Actually, Joseph wasn't the youngest,
Benjamin was. But still, Joseph was very
special to his dad.
Now I'm the youngest of four in my family,
and whenever we get together, my two sisters and brother love to remind me of
just how much I was spoiled simply because I was the youngest.
And it's true. The rules were much more lax for me. I think my parents were just plain tired of
parenting after raising the first three.
For example, they weren't as strict with
me about getting good grades. I guess it
was about six years ago now, I went back home to see my mom who has since died,
and I ended up rummaging through some of my things that were still in the
attic. And one of the things I found
was my elementary grade school cards. I
couldn’t believe that these were still saved in pristine condition and tucked
away in a shoe box.
Just
to show you what kind of student I was, here is what my first grade teacher,
Mrs. Maddox wrote about me on the grade card.
She used the sandwich approach.
You know what that is right? You begin
and end with something positive and stick the negative part in the middle. Here’s what she wrote - “Robert is working nicely. He is easily confused on new materials but
is not timid about asking about things he does not understand.” Is that me or what?
And
here’s what my 4th grade teacher, Mrs. Umberger wrote about me on a
different grade card. And she did not
use the sandwich approach. She got
straight to the point. “Robert’s grade is
low because he gets very low grades on his workbook. He doesn’t take time to read directions
carefully.” That is so me even to this day!
Every so often, my dad would simply tell
me his oft quoted line, "Son - you
better buckle down." And that
was all he said to me. No
repercussions. No extra chores. Just – “Robert. You better buckle down." I never understood what he meant by
that. Were my pants too loose? "You
better buckle down."
This
was my dad’s way of reminding me to study a little harder, but he was still a
lot softer on me than he was on my sisters and brother.
I've
always been able to relate to this story of Joseph because as the youngest, I guess
you could say that I enjoyed my share of privileges.
I am told by a very trusted authority
(namely my wife) that the psychological reason for this family dynamic is
because parents don't want their little baby to grow up. The others grew up so fast and they want to
keep the youngest a baby forever.
And so, right off the bat, we know that
trouble is brewing in the Jacob household.
To make matters worse, Jacob has Joseph
wear this pretentious coat of many colors.
And did you catch the little detail that this coat had sleeves? In Bible times, you were somebody special and
set apart if you had sleeves.
It was understood back then that anyone
with long sleeves would not be expected to do manual labor. Now, here's where Jacob and my father were
very different. I was expected to bail
hay, mow the grass, and work at a factory over the holidays and during the
summer months.
Even though I may have been spoiled and
got away with a lot, my dad never gave me a robe with sleeves.
You want to talk about a recipe for
disaster. Picture Joseph's brothers
sweating and dirty out in the fields and watching Joseph all clean and fresh
coming toward them in his fancy "daddy loves me more than you"
robe.
Which is exactly the scene we have in our
scripture reading this morning. And as
Joseph approaches his brothers from a distance, the brothers are fuming.
One of them sarcastically says, "Here comes this dreamer." If you recall, Joseph had told his
brothers about two dreams in which his brothers had bowed down to him. Not surprisingly, this did not go over very
well with the brothers.
So as Joseph walks toward his hard working
brothers, one of them says, "Hey,
guys, this is our chance to kill Mr. Dreamer."
And
this story goes from bad to worse.
There's a glimmer of hope when Reuben begs his brothers to not kill
Joseph but to just throw him in a cistern that doesn't have any water.
They strip Joseph of his long sleeved robe
and they throw him into a pit. And how
they managed to eat lunch after this I will never know, but while the brothers
were eating, they noticed a caravan of people on their way to Egypt.
That's when they decide to sell Joseph to
this traveling group for twenty pieces of silver. So Joseph officially becomes a slave and is
sent off to Egypt.
The brothers grab the robe, dip it into
some blood of a goat, and make up a story that Joseph had been killed by a wild
animal.
Their father is devastated upon hearing
this news and grieves the loss of his youngest son, Joseph. Meanwhile, the band of travelers arrives in
Egypt and Joseph is sold to one of Pharoah's officials.
Let’s stop here for just a moment. This story of Jacob and his dysfunctional
family is just one of many dysfunctional stories that we find in this first
book of the Bible. Welcome to the wild
and whacky world of the Book of Genesis!
You would think that these kinds of crazy
stories would be few and far between among God's people. Sometimes the community of faith doesn't look
all that different from the Kardashians. Actually, the Kardashians are much
more functional that Joseph’s family.
But none of this should surprise us,
right? I mean, the first few pages of
the Book of Genesis tell us the story of how sin entered the world. It was when we disobeyed God and ate from the
tree of good and evil even though we were clearly told not to do so. Even though we got to live in the beautiful and
amazing Garden of Eden and had everything we wanted, we still chose to do what
God had told us not to do.
Theologians call this decision to disobey
God, original sin. And it’s something we
struggle with throughout our life – the temptation to do the wrong thing
because of a desire for greed, or pleasure, or power, or to take the easy way out.
Leonard Sweet is Christian speaker and
author. He put it so well when he wrote, “The
only thing original about me is original sin.” Is it any wonder then, when new members join
the church that they respond to this very heavy question? And the question is, “Do you renounce the spiritual forces of wickedness, reject the evil
powers of this world and repent of your sin?”
Because of original sin, we always face
the temptation, just like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden to disobey
God. That’s why Israel often strayed
away from God. And the same is true of
the church.
Some people look long and hard for the
perfect church where there is no gossip, no jealousy, and where differences of
opinions are always handled in loving and mature ways.
The story of Joseph is a story of how
God’s own people struggle in being the community of faith that God has called
us to be. I wonder if the reason the
bible is willing to air all of this dirty laundry is to help us come face to
face with our own pettiness and hurtful actions toward each other.
While I was serving as pastor of one of my
previous churches, I was having lunch with a couple of parishioners in a local
restaurant. One of the members of our
church was also eating in that same restaurant and she came up to our table to
say “Hi.”
And she said to everyone at our table, “Isn’t it great that we voted down the
proposal? That would have been a big
mistake if we would have passed it.”
She was referring to a very controversial
vote that our church had recently made at a special Church Conference.
What this church member who had come to
our table didn’t know was that the people sitting with me voted in favor of the
proposal. Her words hurt them
deeply. She had assumed that they voted
the same way that she had voted.
It was an awkward moment and I don’t think
she ever realized how hurtful that comment was to her fellow parishioners.
Sometimes, we needlessly hurt one another
in the Body of Christ.
Even though I am not naïve enough to
believe that a church can be perfect, I still am amazed at how flippantly we
can say things to brothers and sisters in Christ without thinking. And often, it's not so much the opinions we
share because I think we all realize that we are a church of diverse opinions
and thoughts. The problem is in the way
we share them.
If the church isn’t perfect, that what is
it?
Christian blogger, Rachel Held Evans, in
her book “Searching for Sundays” talks about a radio station that interviewed
her. They asked her why she chooses to participate in the church even though
much of her writing denounces the hypocrisy and judgmental attitude that is
often associated with many churches.
She writes, “I talked about Jesus—his life, teachings, death,
resurrection, and presence in my life and in the world. I talked about how
faith is always a risk and how the story of Jesus is a story I’m willing to
risk being wrong about. And then I said something that surprised me a little,
even as the words left my mouth.
“I’m a Christian,” I
said, “because Christianity names and addresses sin. It acknowledges the
reality that the evil we observe in the world is also present within ourselves.
It tells the truth about the human condition—that “we’re not okay.”
“Confess your sins to
each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed,” instructed James,
the brother of Jesus. At its best, the church functions much like a recovery
group, a safe place where a bunch of struggling, imperfect people come together
to speak difficult truths to one another. Sometimes the truth is we have sinned
as individuals. Sometimes the truth is we have sinned corporately, as a people.
Sometimes the truth is we’re hurting because of another person’s sin or as a
result of forces beyond our control. Sometimes the truth is we’re just hurting,
and we’re not even sure why.
The practice of
confession gives us the chance to admit to one another that we’re not okay, and
then to seek healing and reconciliation together, in community.”
Rachel Held Evans
speaks truth, does she not?
Naming and confessing
our sins both individually and collectively is how God helps us to have a world
where brothers and sisters in Christ find unity in the midst of our many political
and theological differences of opinion. It helps us to have a world that seeks peace rather than war. It’s also how we can have a
world where all races live in harmony and where the Statue of Liberty torch is
raised higher than the torches carried by white supremacists in Charlottesville,
Virginia.
Naming and confessing
our sins is what the story of Joseph and his brothers has to offer us in our
broken, hurting, and dysfunctional world that God created and seeks to make
new.
And so maybe we shouldn’t be all that surprised that
the Bible didn’t edit out the dysfunctional stories of our matriarchs and
patriarchs of faith. These dirty laundry
stories aren’t only found in the Book of Genesis. In the New Testament we read
of Peter and Paul, two giants of the faith, two pillars of the church, sparring
at one another over a delicate issue which the early church was facing at the
time.
And what about those twelve discples who
were around a table with Jesus at the Last Supper. Twelve men.
Not brothers in the biological sense of the word. But brothers in Christ.
One of those brothers left the table to
proceed with his plans to betray Christ in exchange for 30 pieces of
silver. Joseph’s brothers got 20 pieces
of silver for their betrayal.
Another brother who was sitting around
that table would end up denying Jesus three times. And at one time or another, all of these
brothers would forsake Jesus during a time when he needed them the most.
The soldiers stripped Jesus of his robe
before crucifying him. Joseph was also
stripped of his robe.
Fortunately, the story doesn’t end with
Joseph being sold into slavery. And the
story of Jesus doesn’t end with him on the cross.
Today, we, the brothers and sisters in Christ, gather around the Lord’s table to receive the Sacrament of Holy Communion, to receive forgiveness for how we have intentionally or unintentionally hurt one another.
It’s ironic that we who have broken
Christ’s body because of our hurtful words, our jealousies, and our unloving
ways, are the same people who will also be reminded in just a few moments of
Christ’s words to us when he said, “This
is my body broken for you.”
The Story of Joseph: Part I
Small Group Questions
Genesis 37:1-4, 12-28
August 13, 2017
The stories from the Book of Genesis that we've been looking at this summer, especially today's story of Jacob's dysfunctional family reminds us of how the bible isn't afraid of airing the dirty laundry of the matriarchs and patriarchs of our faith. Jacob favors Joseph over his other sons. Joseph flaunts his favoritism. Joseph's brothers sell him into slavery and lie to their father, Jacob about what happened to him. Dr. Phil would have loved to interview these biblical characters!
If you were Dr. Phil, what question would you like to ask Joseph's family?
Christian author, Rachel Held Evans claims that what makes Christianity special for her is that we don't need to pretend that we don't struggle with sin. Our faith invites us to share our struggles with each other, especially in a small group where we accept each other for who we are.
How has your small group helped you to feel free to confess your struggles and sins with each other?
Pastor Robert referred to the recent events of the white supremacy march in Charlottesville, Virginia as well as the threat of war with North Korea as examples of how our world is broken and dysfunctional in so many ways.
As a small group, offer this prayer together for world peace and mutual understanding:
Grant, O God, that your holy and life-giving Spirit may so move every human heart and especially the hearts of the people of this land, that barriers which divide us may crumble, suspicions disappear, and hatreds cease; that our divisions being healed, we may live in justice and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Pastor Robert referred to the recent events of the white supremacy march in Charlottesville, Virginia as well as the threat of war with North Korea as examples of how our world is broken and dysfunctional in so many ways.
As a small group, offer this prayer together for world peace and mutual understanding:
Grant, O God, that your holy and life-giving Spirit may so move every human heart and especially the hearts of the people of this land, that barriers which divide us may crumble, suspicions disappear, and hatreds cease; that our divisions being healed, we may live in justice and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
In his sermon on Joseph, Pastor Robert listed parallels with Joseph and his brothers and the story of Christ and the disciples. For example, Jacob had twelve sons and Jesus had twelve disciples, Joseph's brothers sold Joseph into slavery for twenty pieces of silver and one of the disciples betrayed Christ for thirty pieces of silver, Joseph's brother stripped Joseph of his robe and Jesus' robe was stripped from his when he was crucified. The good news is that Jesus' crucifixion and resurrection three days later opened the way for us to be forgiven for our sins and our dysfunctional ways.
Share a time when you felt forgiven and loved by Christ.
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