A United Methodist Pastor's Theological Reflections

"But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory (nikos) through our Lord Jesus Christ." - I Corinthians 15:57


Monday, August 17, 2015

Pastoral Prayer (August 16) - Athens First UMC


Lord, we know you are with us. Guide and direct us in all that we do. Help us to be a Spirit filled church.

Remind us of this prayer, O God when we’re behind the steering wheel, when we enter the doors of this church building, when we stand outside this church building giving out water bottles to college students, when we tell our children to have a great first day of school, when we visit a friend who is going through a difficult time.

O God, in everything we do, help us to always be ready to live out our faith, not relying on our strength and abilities, but on your indwelling Holy Spirit at work in our lives. Help us to have a varsity faith and letter in a Spirit-filled life.

Just as your Holy Spirit empowered our mission team to make a difference in Nicaragua this summer, may your Holy Spirit empower our church to make a difference right here on College Street as we give out water bottles to college students this Saturday. We pray that this simple display of kindness will let our community know that we are a church with open hearts, open minds, and open doors.

We pray for those who are in particular need of your indwelling Holy Spirit this day. We think of those who feel alone, who are not feeling well, and who are struggling to make ends meet. Send them a special sense of your Holy Spirit that they would be comforted in knowing that you are with them offering guidance and strength.

We are reminded of Jesus’ words when he said that when two or three are gathered together, you are in the midst of them. Send us your Holy Spirit, O God, even as we pray the words that Jesus taught us to say together…


Our Father, who art in heaven…

Sunday, August 16, 2015

Sermon by Rev. Robert McDowell (August 16) - "A Varsity Faith: Lettering in the Spirit-Filled Life"


     I have been wearing one of your varsity jackets each Sunday during this varsity faith summer focus. Today, I am wearing Kellen Murphy’s high school varsity jacket. Kellen went to Centennial High School up in Columbus where he lettered in hockey and tennis.

     So, Kellen has not only served tennis balls, he also serves Jesus through many different ways here in our church. Thank you, Kellen for all of the ways you serve.
     Today, we focus on the importance of lettering in living out the Spirit-filled life.
     Many years ago, a young family invited Penny and me to their house for dinner. It was just going to be a time to relax and get to know each other a little better.
     So we arrived at their house and Terry, the husband, was shooting baskets in his driveway.  And so I started shooting baskets with him. 
     And after a few minutes of shooting some baskets, Terry said, “How about a quick game of horse.”  So we played a game of horse and he beat me.  Terry was a pretty good basketball player.  He was about 6’ 4” and very athletic.
     After our game of horse, Terry says to me, “Here, shoot around a while, because I need to go into the house for a minute.  I’ll be right back.”
     Terry goes into his house and I continue to shoot some baskets.  Five minutes goes by and Terry isn’t back. Same thing after ten minutes.  Still no Terry. I start wondering what’s going on.  Finally, about 15 minutes later, Terry emerges from his garage.  He is now wearing gym shorts.  He is also wearing a head band, knee pads, and basketball shoes.
     I look over at his wife and she starts laughing because she knows how competitive her husband can be.  And here I was, wearing casual shorts, a polo shirt, and regular athletic shoes. Throwing the basketball into my chest, he tells me, “Let’s go to twenty.”  
     So we start going at it, and that’s when I realize how good Terry is. He’s blocking my shots.  He’s stealing the ball from me.  He’s getting just about every rebound.
     Terry came out of his house ready to play. I obviously was not ready or prepared to play.
     I wonder if this is what Paul means when he tells us to be filled with the Spirit.  Maybe we can learn something from Terry. We are to come ready to live out our faith every single day.  We are to allow God’s Spirit to grab hold of us and strengthen us, and guide us as we seek to be followers of Jesus Christ.
     Paul tells us to sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, singing and making melody to the Lord in your hearts, giving thanks to God the Father at all times and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
     Paul is saying, if you want to be filled with the Spirit, come ready to play.  Put on that head band and those knee pads and allow the Holy Spirit to be at work in your life. 
     “Be ready,” Paul says.  Don’t rely on your own strength.
     If we want to have a varsity faith, we need to letter in being filled with the Holy Spirit. We need to practice the presence of God in our lives.
     Baptism reminds us that the Holy Spirit is always present in our lives. We may not always realize it at the time, but God’s Spirit is always with us.
     This was never made so clear to me than the time that I was attending a conference event when I was still in college.  It was at a time in my life when I knew that God had called me to totally change my career plans and respond to God’s call to enter the pastoral ministry.
     It was a scary time for me, because I had a lot of self-doubts at that time, and I was struggling with this new calling in my life.
     And so, here I was at this large conference meeting, and I just so happened to sit next to one of the former pastors of my home church when I was born back in the early 60s. Rev. John Wesley Stamm was his name.
     I was his first baptism at that church. He had served several other churches since that time, and now in God’s mysterious way, here we were next to each other at this conference event.  And when he found out that I was one of the McDowell kids from a former church, his eyes lit up and he said to me, “I baptized you!”
     Those three words had such an impact on me that I have never forgotten them.  “I baptized you!” he said.   His words to me were a reminder that it’s not about my abilities or strengths for ministry.  It’s about what God through his Holy Spirit can do in and through each one of us.
    Rev. John Wesley Stamm reminded me that God’s Spirit is present in each of our lives even when we are only a few months old. I went away from that conference thinking about his comment to me. “I baptized you.” I felt a renewed confidence in responding to the calling to enter the pastoral ministry.
     Paul tells us to be filled with the Spirit. That’s what my home pastor’s words helped me to do. They helped me to realize the untapped potential that is inside each one of us.
     Here I had been focusing on my doubts and insecurities as I wrestled with God’s calling to enter the ministry, not realizing that the Holy Spirit was already active and present in my life.
     I have noticed it really doesn’t matter how long we have been followers of Christ or how long we have been part of the church, all of us have a tendency to forget that God’s Spirit is present in our lives. But when we do remember, it’s the greatest thing.
     This reminds me of the story of the man who was at a revival service. This man was out in the congregation and he shouted out for everyone to hear, “Lord, fill me with your Spirit! Lord, fill me!”
     A couple of minutes later, this man stood up again and shouted, “Lord, fill me with your Holy Spirit! Fill me!” He did this several more times during the service. “Lord, fill me with your Spirit! Fill me!”
     Finally, another man had heard enough, and he stood up and said, “Don’t do it Lord. He leaks!”
     Well, truth be told, we all leak, don’t we? We are all leaky Christians. That’s why Paul is reminding us that if we want to have a growing and vital faith, a varsity level kind of faith, we need to remember to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
     Remember, that it’s not about our abilities or strengths. It’s about God’s empowering and indwelling Holy Spirit that has always been there. We just forget about this from time to time.
     Laurence Hull Stookey says that we all suffer from what he calls, “spiritual amnesia.” We forget that God is present in our lives in any given moment and situation through the power of the Holy Spirit.
     Several years ago, I was asked to preach at a church where a friend of mine was serving. She had always wanted me to preach at her church, and it just so happened that the best date for me to preach there was on Baptism of the Lord Sunday, which always falls in the beginning of January.
     As I prepared for that Sunday, I felt led to offer a baptism renewal where I would invite the people in the church to come forward and I would place water on each person’s forehead and say the words, “Remember your baptism and be thankful.”
     As that Sunday approached, I remember feeling anxious about leading this baptism renewal as a guest preacher.
     I mean, this congregation didn’t know me and I didn’t know if anybody would respond and come forward for the renewal. I was beginning to second guess myself.
     The Sunday finally came and I preached a stirring sermon about baptism and the Holy Spirit. I ended the sermon by offering an invitation for people to come forward for this baptism renewal.
     As I was giving the instructions, I noticed this great big burly guy in the back pew. He looked kind of intimidating and his arms were crossed. I thought to myself, “This ought to be interesting.”
     I then picked up a bowl of warm water that I had prepared ahead of time and took my place there in the middle of the front of the sanctuary. I said to the congregation, “Come forward as you feel led and remember your baptism.”
     Inside I was praying, “Lord, please have at least a couple of people come forward, even one person, Lord.” Yes, these are the things pastors think about at such times, just in case you were wondering. Sometimes, we leak!
     To my delight, several people got out of their pews and began coming forward. I was very surprised. As each person came to me, I said, “Remember your baptism and be thankful.” “Remember your baptism and be thankful.”
     I glanced to the back of the sanctuary and didn’t see that big burly man in the back pew. Did he leave? Where did he go? Did I scare him off?
     The people continued to come forward. “Remember your baptism and be thankful.” “Remember your baptism and be thankful.”
     The people of that church were really responding. It was so moving to see so many people come forward. Some even knelt at the chancel rail to pray before returning to their pew.
     But God saved the best for last. Lo and behold, that big tough guy brought up the end of the line. I was shocked! “Ye of little faith,” I thought to myself.
     The last person in the line, this giant of a man with huge arms and an incredibly thick neck, was one of the last persons to come forward. I dipped my fingers in the bowl of water and reached up to put the sign of the cross on his forehead.
     That’s when I noticed that tears were streaming down his face, obviously moved by that holy moment. I said the words, “Remember your baptism and be thankful.” And this giant teddy bear of a man said back to me while choking back the tears, “God bless you, Pastor.”
     I can’t totally explain why people, even tough looking guys are that moved by this simple reminder that God’s spirit is present in our lives, but I’ve experienced this time and time again. Whenever we are reminded that we are not alone and that God is with us, it makes all the difference in the world.
     We are reminded that God has claimed us and knows us by name. The fears, the insecurities, and the doubts fade away. We realize that we have everything we need. God’s spirit dwells within us.
     I’m sure there are a many people who could use a little reminder that the Holy Spirit is with them, especially as a new year of school is about to begin. It’s a time of preparing for new classes, meeting new teachers and professors, and making new friends.
     The Apostle Paul is reminding us in our scripture reading this morning, that we will not be alone as we face these changes in life. The Holy Spirit will be with those students as they walk into the lecture hall on their first day of class, as teachers prepare those lesson plans, as a little girl gets on the school bus for the first time, and as the new pastor is still trying to get adjusted in a new setting.
     The Holy Spirit is already present in each of our lives, guiding and directing us. We just need to remind each other of this good news of our faith.
     An elderly church member from my previous church told me how difficult it’s been since her husband’s death several years ago. She said that when he passed away, she felt all alone. Everything changed when he died.
     She said that her husband would always drive them places, but now she was in the driver’s seat. She said that since his death, when she gets in the car to go somewhere and puts her hands on the steering wheel, she has a little conversation with God. She prays, “Well, Lord, it’s just you and me now. I know you are with me. Guide and direct me in all that I do.”
     Isn’t that incredible? It was her way of reminding herself that she wasn’t alone. The Holy Spirit has been guiding her every step of the way even in the driver's seat, literally, the driver's seat.
     This is what the Apostle Paul is telling us to do if we want to have a varsity level kind of faith. Be filled with the Spirit. Remember that you are never alone. God is right there guiding, directing, and empowering us to live out our faith.
     I was reading an article this past spring about what helps churches to grow. One of the top reasons why a church grows is because there is a lot of excitement within the congregation about what God is about to do next. And this excitement is because the people are open to how the Holy Spirit is at work in and through the church.
     What if we have the same openness to the Holy Spirit as the elderly woman who I just shared with you? What if every time we enter these church doors, we would adapt her prayer ever so slightly and say,
     “Lord, I know you are with us. Guide and direct us in all that we do. Help us to be a Spirit-filled church.”
     You’ll find this little Holy Spirit prayer in your bulletin this morning. I invite us to pray this prayer together.
     Let us pray: “Lord, I know you are with us. Guide and direct us in all that we do. Help us to be a Spirit-filled church. Amen”
     Today is a special Sunday. Later in our worship service, I am going to invite you to come forward for a baptism renewal. If you haven’t been baptized, that’s OK, you’re still invited come forward and know that the Holy Spirit is present in your life in every situation you face.
     This is not going to be a typical baptism renewal service. Usually, I would place a little water on each person’s forehead in the form of the cross, but since we will be blessing five hundred water bottles which will be given away to college students this Saturday, I’m going to invite you to come forward to receive a bottle of water so you can take back with you to your seat.
     When you come forward, I will hand you a bottle of water and say to you, “Remember your baptism, and be thankful.” Today’s baptism renewal service reminds us that we are a Spirit filled people who are seeking to be a blessing to our community by giving out these water bottles to college students.
     After everyone comes forward to receive a water bottle and return to their seat, we will all have an opportunity to bless these bottles together. You will notice that the bottles have labels on them that include a welcome message, our church name, and our worship times.
     This Saturday, from 11 in the morning until 5 in the afternoon, volunteers in our church will be handing out these water bottles to students and folks walking by our church building. We want our community to know that the Spirit is alive and well here at First United Methodist Church!
     I can tell that the Holy Spirit is alive in this church because I can sense an excitement and openness to new ways to share God’s love right here in this university setting. The Holy Spirit is in this place!
     As we have being going through Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, we have been discovering what it means to have a growing and varsity level type of faith. Paul says we need to letter in worship, Christian unity, growth, spiritual gifts, kindness, and a Spirit-Filled life.

     Next Sunday, we’ll focus on one more letter for a varsity faith, prayer.

Monday, August 10, 2015

Pastoral Prayer (August 9) - Athens First UMC


Loving and kind God, you want us to have a varsity faith, a faith that overflows with worship, unity, growth, spiritual gifts, and kindness. We want to excel in these areas, but we confess that they often feel very elusive and difficult to live out on a consistent basis in our everyday lives. Teach us what it means to letter in these areas and to be the people you have called us to be.

We are recipients of your kindness in so many ways. The cashier at the store who  surprised us by saying, “You gave me too much money,” the scout leaders who stopped by the church and said, “Let us know how our troop can help the church,” the girl in our church who spent the day making a cake to bring to our Wonderful Wednesday program, the church members who met this past week to plan out how we can be part of a water bottle give away during moving in week.

O God, your loving kindness toward us is contagious. We don’t want to just keep it to ourselves. We want to give it away so the people we see throughout the week will know we are Christians by our love.

We pray for people who are on our minds this day and who are in particular need of your kindness. We pray for those who are in need of physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual healing. Surround these persons with your kind embrace and may they know of the love, peace, hope, and joy that we can always find in you.

The beginning of the presidential debates reminds us that we are a country of many different opinions, even within political parties. Help us to be a country that respects the opinions of others while also working for the common good, especially for those who have little or no voice in our society.

Guide all of our world’s political leaders to seek peace and justice for all people. Thank you for our Festival of Sharing kits that we were able to put together this past Wednesday and for the Trimble Elementary School food ministry to help children and families who are living in poverty.  We are grateful to share in these ways that offer your kindness to those in need.

O God, we know how good it feels when someone offers us a cold drink when we are really thirsty. Thank you for sending us Jesus who is the living water. Together, we join in saying the prayer he taught us, “Our Father, who art in heaven…”

Sunday, August 9, 2015

Sermon (August 9) by Rev. Robert McDowell - "A Varsity Faith: Lettering in Kindness"



     We have been focusing on the Apostle Paul’s Letter to Ephesians this summer to help us think about what it means to have a growing and mature faith, a varsity level kind of faith.
     I’ve been wearing a different varsity jacket each week during the sermon. Today’s varsity jacket belongs to Nathan Rickey who lettered in hockey at Athens High School. Thank you Nathan, for letting me wear your varsity jacket!
     God must have a sense of humor because our focus today is on the importance of being kind to others, and this isn’t something we usually associate with the sport of hockey.
     In Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, we find these words, counter-cultural words, “And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you.”
     Paul says to us, to be kind toward one another.  What do you think of when you hear the word, “kind?”
     Hockey? Presidential debates?
     Or do you think of being gentle, loving, thoughtful, caring, compassionate, and maybe going out of your way to help someone?
     My wife, Penny has a way of responding to someone who shows her kindness.  She will say, “Well, aren’t you kind!” She almost has this southern accent when she says it. “Well, aren’t you kind.”
     Underneath that response, it’s like she’s saying, “You really went out of your way, and I noticed.”
     So what do you think?  Do we live in a kind world?  Do we live in a world in which people are constantly showing kindness left and right?
     Probably not, otherwise, we would constantly be saying all day long, “Well aren’t you kind!  And aren’t you kind!”    
      Here in chapter 4 and into chapter 5, Paul’s letter to the Ephesians offers specific and practical instructions in what it means to be a mature follower of Jesus Christ and to have a varsity level type of faith.
      I think what’s going on here, is that Paul wants the Ephesians to realize that being followers of Jesus Christ means that we are to be distinctive in the world.  We are to stand out in a good way, not a bad way.
     Showing kindness day in and day out is how we are to be distinctive in the world. Paul is reminding us, that showing kindness is a huge part of what it means to be mature disciples of Jesus Christ.
     A lot of what Paul has to say in this passage has to do with the tongue.  What we say and don’t say.  This is extremely important for Paul.
     Paul writes that we are to speak the truth, but not twist the truth to make someone else look bad; not that any of our presidential candidates would ever think of doing something like that.
     But it’s not just politics. I wonder if Paul was writing today if he would include how we conduct ourselves through Facebook and other forms of social media.
     If you don’t already know, I love social media. I see it as a way to stay in touch with all of you in between Sundays as well as with the larger community. Just like our tongues can be unkind, what we type through social media can be unkind.
     If you ever want to get really, really depressed, go online, read an article, and then read the comments and opinions that people posted about that article. Even if the article wasn’t that controversial, chances are that there will be some very unkind comments.
     Some of these comments have no basis in fact whatsoever. Even people who have disagreements, express their opinions in such a way that is just plain nasty. It’s very challenging to consistently show Christian kindness in a world that has so much negativity.
     I like that Paul tells us to think about what we say about our neighbors because, Paul says, we are members of one another.  We should want the best for people, and that doesn’t mean resorting to gossip and snooping around for the dirty details.
     And then Paul talks about anger.  Not that anger in and of itself is wrong, but it’s what we do with our anger that makes all the difference.  Anger is meant to help us to work for peace and justice in a particular situation. 
     Anger is not meant for us to belittle someone or do something that is counter to our faith.  That’s why Paul says to not make room for the devil when we are angry. 
     There’s always that fine line in using our anger to do what is right, rather than to say something or do something that we will later regret. The mark of a mature faith, of a varsity level of faith is to not allow anger to get the best of us, but to make a situation better.
     And then Paul offers a solution to help thieves to stop stealing.  I love this.  Paul says, “If you are in any way taking money from people in a dishonest way, you need to stop doing that, not only because it’s wrong, but so that you can live in a way that will help the poor.”
     Paul is saying that instead of spending your time and energy in acquiring wealth in an unethical way, you should be making money the right way so that you can give back to the poor.
     I love it that Paul just doesn’t quote from the Ten Commandments about “Thou shall not steal” but he’s getting at something much deeper. He’s saying, “We can’t afford as Christians to be involved in unethical behavior, because we need to be helping the poor and the needy.” 
     And then Paul tells us to speak words of grace to those around us.  Paul specifically says to use words that build up.  Talk about counter-cultural!  One of the most practical ways that we can show Christian kindness toward others, is to offer words of affirmation and encouragement.
     Husbands and wives – These are great words to help us have a marriage that is built on trust and appreciation. 
     I love it when Penny says to me things like…Here are some things she will often say to me…“You are such a hunk. You are so strong and muscular. I really hit the jackpot when I married you.”
     Actually, one of the many kind things she says to me is, “You take good care of me.” That makes me feel so good! Isn’t it amazing how powerful a kind word can have on you?
     We once had a microwave that was kind. Yes, you heard me correctly. We had a kind microwave. After you would heat something up in this microwave, the phrase, “Enjoy your meal” would appear on the little digital screen.
     Our microwave was showing us kindness whenever we used it! That’s pretty incredible when you’re appliances show you kindness.
     The exception is the refrigerator. Every one of our refrigerators has been really cold toward us. I don’t know what we say or do, but they always come across really cold.
     Speaking of kind words, I remember meeting with a married couple who was having marital problems. You could just feel the anger and coldness in their relationship.
     They each took turns telling each other everything they didn’t like about the other. At times, the conversation became very heated.
     After I let them vent for a while, I said to them, “OK, for the past several minutes, you’ve shared your frustrations about the other person, but now I want you to share what you appreciate about the other person.”
     You could have heard a pin drop in the room. They were caught off guard. The tension in their faces began to relax.
     After a long pause, one of them said to the other, “I love your smile, especially when you’re playing with the kids on the floor. You have the most beautiful smile.”
     I call these break-through type of moments, “God entering the room moments” because it felt like God had entered the room in that very moment.
     The focus immediately shifted from anger to kindness and it was one of the most beautiful things I have ever witnessed.
     Now, they still had a lot to sort out, but that moment of kindness became a turning point in their relationship. They were now on the road to healing as a couple.
     Showing kindness is important for any relationship. Words of affirmation go a lot farther than words that put someone down.
     Ella Wheeler Wilcox has this wonderful quote on the importance of offering affirmation.  She says, “A pat on the back is only a few vertebrae removed from a kick in the pants, but is miles ahead in results.”
     Affirmation is an important way that we use words of grace for the purpose of building each other up and not tearing others down.
     And then Paul concludes our passage of scripture by talking about the touchy topic of forgiveness.  He says to “be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you.”
     Forgiveness is at the heart of what it means to be a follower of Jesus. Forgiveness can be hard though, and often it is.
     The story of told of two businessmen who were roommates in college, meeting at a convention with their wives.  The men, reliving the days of happy go lucky youth, sat in the hotel lobby and before they knew it, most of the night had slipped away. 
     They knew they would be in trouble and the next day, they happened to see each other.
     “What did your wife think?” said the one.
     “When I walked in the door, my wife got historical.”
     “Don’t you mean hysterical?” the other man said.
     “No.  Historical.  She told me everything I ever did wrong.  She got historical on me.”
     Paul tells us toward the end of our passage, that God does not get historical on us for our past sins.  When we confess our sins to God through faith in Jesus Christ, we can be assured that our sins have been forgiven and God remembers our sins no more.
     And in the same way, we are to forgive one another for the ways we have hurt one another, intentionally and unintentionally.  Why?  Because God has forgiven us. 
     This is kindness at its very best.  When we forgive one another, just as Christ has forgiven us.
     A varsity level type of faith always includes kindness which is rooted in the unconditional love of Jesus Christ.  And just think what a difference an entire church can make, when it offers God’s unconditional love to its surrounding community.
     Chances are that you have been on the receiving end of a random act of kindness. During the Christmas Season one year, I was leaving a department store and someone from a nearby church was handing out free rolls of gift wrap paper.
     I remember thinking how this was such a kind and thoughtful thing for a church to do.
     I’ve had people ahead of me in a fast food line pay for my order as a random act of kindness. I had never done this for anybody before so I thought I’d give it a try.
     One day, I was in the drive-thru lane at a fast food restaurant and a really big van got in line behind me.
     As I sat there just waiting to place my order, it was like God was saying to me, “This is your chance. Pay for the person behind you.”
     I remember thinking, “Lord, I’m a little low on disposable income this week, and what if that van is filled with a bunch of kids? This could be expensive.”
     As these thoughts were going through my head, it was becoming more and more apparent that this was something God wanted me to do.
     So when I finally pull up to the window to pay for my order, I say, “Here’s the money for my order and I also want to pay for the van behind me. I don’t care how big their order is. I’ll pay it all.”
     This person at the window smiled at me and said, “Oh, OK, that will be another $3.10.” And I went, “Yes!!”
     And this guy just laughed, knowing that I got off easy. I told him, “Just tell the person behind me, “God bless you from First United Methodist Church.”
     So here’s the deal. That was the best $3.10 I have ever spent in my life!
     God is good! Amen? Amen!
     Random acts of kindness!
     A friend of mine who’s a pastor was telling me about how his church has been involved in random acts of kindness in his community.
     This pastor told me, “Our church chose for one of our “random acts of kindness” to go to a local Speedway gas station and clean their restrooms for free.”  
     And my first reaction was, “Yuck!” 
     But then he said, “An amazing thing happened through this ministry.  One of the workers at that Speedway gas station, was so taken aback by this act of kindness and self-sacrifice, that she ended up joining our church and she’s now singing in our choir.” 
     This was because a few Christians showed kindness in a world that can be so very unkind. 
     In just two weeks, our church will have an opportunity to show Christian kindness to incoming students by giving out free water right here in front of our church building. This will be a simple and practical way of letting our community know that we are a caring church.
     But why wait until then? How about this week, let’s be intentional in being kind to the people we see.
     Let’s build people up with our words.  Let’s do a kind deed that is helpful to someone.
     And maybe, just maybe, someone will say to you and to me,

     “Well aren’t you kind!”