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Monday, July 6, 2026

“Some of My Favorite Quotes” by Rev. Robert McDowell

“Some of My Favorite Quotes”

Beulah UMC (Talk for Women’s Group)

July 6, 2026

     I love quotes for a couple of reasons. The first reason is because they are great for preachers to use in their sermons because they tend to make you think or laugh or see something from a different perspective or reveal something that resonates with the listener.

     And the second reason I love quotes is because of the people who quoted them. I’m always jealous of people who said something so creative and meaningful that I wish I would have first come up with it.

     Having said that, some of my favorite quotes have come from a person whose name is “Anonymous.” Nobody knows anything about this person except that he or she has some of the best quotes ever and that his or her name is “Anonymous.”

     Here are some well known anonymous quotes that can’t be traced to whoever first said it.

     Raise your hand if you have ever heard of any of these quotes:

     “A picture is worth a thousand words.”

     “Actions speak louder than words.”

     “This too shall pass.”

     And then there are famous quotes which people think are from the Bible but they’re not such as …

     “God helps those who help themselves.” Not in the Bible. That one actually has roots in ancient Greece and Benjamin Franklin made it popular in his Poor Richard’s Almanac.

     Another one is… “God forgives those who forgive themselves.” Again, not in the bible.

     Here’s one we hear a lot… “God works in mysterious ways.” Not in the bible. Actually, it was the 19th century English Poet and Hymn Writer, William Cowper who included this in one of his hymns.

     “Money is the root of all evil.” This is probably the most famous misquotes of the bible. The I Timothy verse is actually, “The love of money is the root of all money.” That changes its meaning!

     “Charity begins at home.” Also, not in the Bible. The 2nd century Roman poet, Terence said it.

     And how can I not mention a few Yogi Berra quotes?? Yogi was a Hall of Fame catcher for the Yankees. Now, these quotes are a little tricky because a lot of his actual quotes got embellished or even totally made up but were attributed to him.

     When someone asked Yogi Berra if he really said all of these quotes, he responded in typical Yogi fashion, “I really didn’t say everything I said.”

     So here are the quotes that we believe he really said just so I’m accurate here.

     In referring to a certain restaurant, Yogi said, “Nobody goes there anymore. It’s too crowed.”

     Another good one of his is, “Baseball is 90% mental and the other half is physical.”

     This is a Yogi quote after he watched Mickey Mantle and Roger Maris hit back-to-back home-runs – He said, “It’s Déjà vu all over again.”

     And just one more Yogi quote. “Always go to other people’s funerals, otherwise they won’t come to yours.”

     So, here are some of my favorite quotes that I have collected over the years and have sprinkled in my sermons from time to time. When I read or hear a quote, I write them down right away so that I can use them someday.

     But like coupons or gift certificates that get shoved to the back of a drawer, they don’t always get used unless I take the time to look them up to see if it would be a good opportunity to use them.

     I actually put these quotes in my computer, and I categorize them by topic so it’s a little easier for me to find them.

     So, here are some of my favorite quotes that I have heard and saved for use in sermons.

     I love history and my undergraduate degree was in history so whenever I hear a good quote about the importance of knowing history, I’ll save them. Here are a couple of them:

     Hilary Mantel, an English novelist said, “The past changes a little every time we tell it.”

     And this one from the author, Robert W. Wheeler - “History writing is a process, never a finished project.”

     Those two quotes are great to help us understand why we have four Gospels and not just one. Our four Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John didn’t just fall from heaven one day. They were a work in progress and before they were written down to what we have now, they were told as stories, and they were told over and over again. It’s what we call the oral tradition of the Bible.

     And as we know, the more we tell stories, the more the details can vary a little bit even though the main point of the story is still there each time.

     For example, Matthew, Mark, and Luke are known as the synoptic gospels which basically means they are parallel gospels because they share many of the same stories but told in slightly different ways. The Gospel writer, John uses a lot of different stories that we don’t even find in those other three gospels.  

     I always tell people who might be concerned about this that it’s OK because each Gospel writer was telling the story from a slightly different perspective. They were also writing at different times and to different audiences. They are the same stories just told in different ways.

     Which brings me back to those quotes I shared with you about history. “The past changes a little every time we tell it.” And the reason for this is that we are telling these stories at different times, to different audiences, with maybe more time to reflect on these stories, and to emphasize certain details over others.

     I am so glad that we have four gospels and not just one because I believe the Holy Spirit wants us to have these different perspectives to help us appreciate these stories even more.

     So, you actually got a little bible study there with these quotes about history and the bible. I’ll share a few more of my favorite quotes that I have used and sprinkled in sermons here and there.

     This is from the psychiatrist, Carl Jung who has this insightful quote about loneliness and when I read it, it was like this light bulb turned on for me as I thought more and more about it.

     Carl Jung said, “Loneliness does not come from having no people around you but in not being able to communicate the things that seem important to you.”

     That quote is so important for all of us in how we relate to others because we are living in a time where loneliness has become an epidemic and it’s not just because of spending too much time on our computers and and phones. It’s really because people don’t want to take time to listen to their thoughts and perspectives and that leads to loneliness.

     Jesus was so good at meeting people where they were, and he was so good at listening to them. He wanted to hear what their needs were, and he wanted to be in a relationship with the people he encountered. And I believe we are called to do the same as his disciples. To listen to people and to have a relationship with them.

     Speaking of quotes by famous psychiatrist, I have probably used this quote by American psychologist, Scott Peck more often than any other quote. I’ve not only used this quote in sermons here and there but also during my pre-marital counseling time with couples.

     And the great thing about this quote from Scott Peck is that it’s only a three-word sentence and it’s the first three words of his famous book, The Road Less Traveled.

     Here’s the quote. “Life is difficult.” What a way to begin a book! “Life is difficult!” By the way, Jesus said something similar when he said in John 16:33, “In this world there will be trouble.”

     Scott Peck goes on to explain in his book that once we accept this hard truth that life is difficult, we are than better able to overcome those difficulties that come our way. Instead of complaining about our problems which doesn’t solve anything, we can actually find helpful and wise ways to solve them. The book then goes on to talk about healthy disciplines that are important for us to overcome the problems that we face in life.

     I think what makes that very simple quote so powerful and memorable is that it’s the first sentence of the book!

     I have learned over the years that we can find great quotes from a variety of sources. Like this one from a Steven Tyler interview, the lead singer for the rock band, Aerosmith.

     He said this quote after he had personally sent a helicopter full of needed supplies to Jamaica following the 2025 hurricane and a reporter asked him why he did it.

     He said, “Kindness should travel faster than the story.” That’s such a great quote. “Kindness should travel faster than the story.”

     I have so many more good quotes, but I need to wrap it up soon, so I’ll share these with you quickly.

     I do not know who said this, but I love it. It’s about the difference between having knowledge vs. having wisdom. “Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is not a fruit, and wisdom is knowing not to put a tomato in a fruit salad.”

     I never noticed this quote until a couple of years ago that is from one of “The Christmas Carol” movies. It’s at the end where Scrooge realizes he’s alive and he’s a changed man and he is so happy, and he sings these words to the maid who can’t believe what she’s seeing, “I don’t know anything…I never did know anything…but now I know that I don’t know…all on a Christmas morning.” It’s a great quote because it reminds us that sometimes we just need to surrender and quiet our minds in order to find that inner joy.

     This next quote is from the Yellowstone TV series starring Kevin Costner. One of the characters in one of the episodes while taking in a breathtaking sunset said, “Perfection only lives in moments.” I love that quote. “Perfection only lives in moments.”

     Which to me means that it’s important to savor those special moments in life.

     So, these are some of my favorite quotes, but there is a quote that is at the very top of the list for me and the last one I want to share with you. It’s a quote that changed my life and I wouldn’t be here today without it.

     I stumbled upon this quote during the end of my freshman year in college. It was at a time in my life when I lacked purpose and direction in my life and I was feeling really low.

    It was during this time that I heard a preacher say that if you really want to change your life then think about this challenge from Jesus who said in Luke 9:23, “If anyone would become my disciple, let them deny themselves, and take up up their cross daily and follow me.”

     And over the next several days, I couldn’t stop thinking about this quote. I had grown up in the church and knew that God loved me, but realized in that moment that Jesus wasn’t really first in my life.

     Feeling like I had nothing to lose, I got down on my knees and told Jesus that I wanted him to be first in my life and that I would do whatever he would want me to do.

     When I prayed that prayer, I felt this tremendous weight lifted off my shoulders. I felt an incredible sense of peace because Jesus was now in control of my life, not me.

     And the first thing that Jesus wanted me to do was to not worry about the future, but to trust Him by studying hard and pulling my grades up which led me to make the Dean’s List. It was like Jesus was telling me, just keep your focus on me and I’ll take care of the rest.

     That’s what I did for those next several months. And it was during my junior year of college, that I realized Jesus was calling me to become a pastor which I have been doing for the past 40 years now.

     Looking back on my life, I will never forget that prayer when I was in college where I told Jesus that from now on, he was in charge of my life. And it was all because of his words, “If anyone would be my disciple, let them deny themselves, take up their cross and follow me.”

     I’ll never forget the peace that I felt after I said that prayer so long ago. It’s a peace that I still feel to this day.

     And whenever I forget to keep my focus on Jesus and what he wants which I do from time to time, all I have to do is remember Luke 9:23, the quote that changed my life.

Sermon (July 5) “A Psummer of Psalms - Psalm 45” by Rev. Robert McDowell


July 5, 2026
Beulah UMC

      During our summer series on the Psalms, we have been looking at how the Psalms can help to deepen and expand our prayer life. My goal for this series is to help us see the variety of Psalms that we have.

     When I began this series last month, I mentioned that there are five categories of Psalms. These include psalms of praise, psalms of lament, psalms of thanksgiving, psalms of wisdom, and royal psalms.


     Our Psalm for today, Psalm 45 is an example of a Royal Psalm because the Psalm writer is extolling the virtue of a king and his upcoming wedding celebration. So the question I’ve been wrestling with in preparation for today’s sermon is how does a Psalm like this help us to deepen and expand our prayer lives? Unless you are a king or you are getting ready to marry a king, how can Psalm 45 have any relevance to our lives?


     As we think about that question, I want to share when this royal wedding Psalm shows up in the three-year lectionary cycle of appointed scripture readings. It appears every March 25, which is exactly nine months before Christmas Day. Nine months which is the typical duration of a pregnancy from conception to birth.


     It’s on March 25 when the church observes The Annunciation, the announcement of when Mary was told that she was pregnant with Jesus, the future King of Israel. So, the reason Psalm 45 is paired with this special day on the church calendar is because it is a royal Psalm that helps to remind us that the child in Mary’s womb is the long-awaited King of Israel from the line of David.


     Another time that Psalm 45 appears in the lectionary is when it is paired with a passage from the Song of Songs in the Old Testament. Now, if you have never read the Song of Songs, be prepared for it to be very expressive of the intimate love between two people. It is the “R” rated book of the Bible.


     The Song of Songs is very poetic in how it describes the physical attraction between two people who are in love. And since Psalm 45 describes a royal wedding celebration, we can see why this Psalm is used for that particular Sunday.


     The other time that Psalm 45 is used in the lectionary is on this Sunday around the middle of the summer when it is connected with the Book of Genesis story of how Abraham’s servant became a matchmaker by bringing Rebekah and Isaac together to become husband and wife.


     So, just by looking at how Psalm 45 is paired with other scripture readings on these different occasions, we can see that this Psalm is about royalty and the deep love between two people. But how can this Psalm deepen our prayer lives?


     Honestly, I don’t know of anybody who has ever said how Psalm 45 is one of their favorite Psalms. Nobody seems to quote any of its seventeen verses. You won’t see any of these verses proudly displayed on a coffee mug.  


     Although, wives might want to consider giving a coffee mug to their husbands with Psalm 45, verse 2 which reads, “You are the most handsome of men.” As a husband, that would be a great gift, y’all!


     This Psalm just doesn’t have any catchy verses like many of the others do. Here’s another example…I don’t want to tell anybody to wear their sword and shoot their arrows at their enemy like we find in verses 3 through 5.


     So how might God speak to us through this ancient and very specific Psalm about a King’s upcoming wedding, especially since none of us were invited.


     So, for what it’s worth, here is what I reflect on whenever I read this Psalm. I’m going to offer these three letter “R” verbs to help us grow deeper in our prayer lives whenever we come across Psalm 45.


     The first “R” word for this Psalm is “Remember.” Like so many of the Psalms, Psalm 45 wants us to remember about the story of the nation of Israel which includes kings and the royal history of our ancient past.   


     In general, the Psalms remind us of our faith story. They rehearse the ancient stories of Israel’s faith by recounting how God formed them to be his people and how he rescued them from slavery and led them to the Promised Land. When we read the Psalms, the Psalmists remind us that we are recipients of a particular faith story dating back to the first pages of the Bible.


     Just like parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents are known to tell stories to the next generation about what it was like to live during the Great Depression or how their family came to America from Ireland or traditions surrounding family weddings and holidays, the Psalmists are doing something very similar. They don’t want us to forget the particular stories of our ancient past which includes kings, queens, and royal weddings.


     Our faith is rooted in history and these ancient ceremonies. When we read Psalm 45, we are remembering that we part of this ancient family and how we are called to continue to live out this history in our day and age. So, in reading this Psalm, we remember who we are as God’s people.


     The second “R” that Psalm 45 offers us is to “Rejoice.” Weddings are meant to be times of celebration. It’s a time for us to rejoice. The word “glad” or “gladness” appears three times in this Psalm and why wouldn’t it since we are talking about a wedding celebration?


     The Psalmist says how God has anointed the king with the oil of gladness. It says how the king has been made glad. And then it says how the king and the princess are led in joy and gladness in a great wedding procession.


     No wonder that this Psalm is paired with joyous moments whenever it appears in our cycle of appointed Sunday scripture readings. These scriptures are always paired with this royal wedding celebration.


     It shows up again with the Song of Song scripture reading that celebrates two people who are in love. And it is used as the Psalm to celebrate the announcement that Mary was with child by the Holy Spirit.


     These are moments of celebration calling us to rejoice and give thanks for God’s faithfulness in our lives.


     When our daughter was married, it was an incredible moment for me to walk her down the aisle, not as a pastor, but as her father. After the wedding, somebody asked me what I was feeling in that special moment.


     I didn’t hesitate with my answer. I said, “I felt so much joy.”  It was overwhelming joy. Not only was I thanking God for giving me such an incredible daughter, but God was also blessing me with an incredible son-in-law. When you read this Psalm, you can’t help but to feel the spirit of rejoicing over this royal wedding that he is describing.


     This Psalm also helps me to think about how Jesus’s first miracle was at a wedding celebration when he turned water into wine. I often choose that Gospel reading for weddings that I conduct which gives me an opportunity to share how Jesus is present with us during these special times of celebration.


     But even beyond wedding ceremonies, we can rejoice in how God has blessed us in so many ways. Even though there are many sad times that we face in our lives, Psalm 45 reminds us to not forget to rejoice especially for these special occasions like weddings.


     This Psalmist invites us to remember that we are heirs of a particular story of faith rooted in the scriptures. This Psalmist also invites us to rejoice and to be glad as we reflect on our blessings.


     And the third “R” that I think we can learn from this Psalmist is the word, “Revere.” First and foremost, Psalm 45 is one of several “Royal Psalms.” In total, there are about twenty of these royal psalms that celebrate both the line of Israel’s kings as well as the Lord who is the true king over all creation.


     As you read this Psalm, notice the deep reverence there is for this king and the one he is about to marry. Now, for sure, some kings of Israel were better than others and they all had their weaknesses as well as their strengths.


     King Saul was the first King of Israel. He started out great but then turned away from God and became very paranoid.


     King David who followed him, was a mighty warrior and led Israel into their glory years, but then he committed adultery with Bathsheba and had her husband killed in battle.


     King Solomon, who was the next king, is known for his great wisdom, but his downfall was that he married foreign wives and oppressed his own people with heavy labor.


     And then the kingdom of Israel was divided after Solomon, and we can read about some kings who were good and others who were not so good.


     These royal psalms highlight the positive qualities of Israel’s kings like this one from Psalm 45. They call upon the people of Israel to revere the king who was anointed to lead God’s people even with their imperfections. But they also point us to a future king who would come from the line of David, a future King, a future Messiah, who through his reign would bring salvation to the world.


     Instead of girding a sword as Psalm 45 mentions, this king would tell his followers to put down their swords. Instead of riding victoriously into battle as described by this Psalm, this king would humbly ride into Jerusalem on a donkey.

 

     This king would gather around a last supper table and say, “This is my blood shed for you. This is my body broken for you.” And instead of a crown of gold and sit on a royal throne, this king would wear a crown of thorns, and his throne would be a wooden cross.


     And every time we gather to receive the Sacrament of Holy Communion, we gather to remember our faith history, we rejoice and give thanks for God’s free gift of salvation and abundant life, and we revere the King of kings and the Lord of lords, Jesus, the Christ, Jesus, the king.


     So, this is why we join our Psalmist for today in saying to our King, “I will cause your name to be celebrated in all generations; therefore, the peoples will praise you forever and ever.”


     And may all of the King’s people say, “Amen.”