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"But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory (nikos) through our Lord Jesus Christ." - I Corinthians 15:57


Monday, December 9, 2024

Sermon (Dec. 8/Advent) “Wanting the Gift” by Rev. Robert McDowell

December 8, 2024 (Advent)
Beulah UMC & Oak Grove UMC

      Today is the 2nd Sunday of our Advent series, “The Gift.”


      During this season, we are looking at four very important words based on our appointed scripture readings that can help us prepare for the gift of Christmas. These four “W” words are Wait, Want, Wonder, and Watch.


     Last Sunday, we began by looking at the importance of waiting as we prepare for Christmas. On that 1st Sunday of Advent, we heard a scripture reading from the Prophet Jeremiah who lived 600 years before the birth of Christ.


     They were living during a very bleak time because of an invading army. And in the midst of this time of uncertainty and fear, Jeremiah announces this word of hope, “The days are surely coming, says the Lord, when I will fulfill the promise I made to the house of Israel and the house of Judah. In those days and in that time, I will cause a righteous Branch to spring up for David; and he shall execute justice and righteousness in the land.”


     In other words, Jeremiah was encouraging God’s people to be patient and to wait because God is faithful.

     What makes this scripture reading so incredible is that Jeremiah was proclaiming this word of hope while he was in prison! This reminds me of the Apostle Paul who wrote four of his letters while he was confined in prison. So, the person who is suffering the most is the one who is the most hopeful in reminding the people that God is faithful and will lead them into a glorious future.

 

     Not only was Jeremiah in prison while announcing those words for the people to wait patiently for God to save them, it would be another 600 years before that promise would be ultimately fulfilled through the birth of Jesus Christ.


     The four weeks of Advent that we are in now are nothing compared to the several centuries that the people of God needed to wait before the coming of Jesus into the world. That first Sunday of Advent reminds us that we can wait upon God because as Jeremiah tells us, “The days are surely coming.” The days are surely coming when God will make all things new. And so, it’s important for us in this Season of Advent to practice the discipline of waiting upon God because God will be faithful.


    And for today, our Advent word is the word, “Wanting.” What does it mean to want the gift that God promises to give to us?


   For this we turn to our appointed Old Testament scripture reading for today, this time from the Prophet, Zephaniah. Sounding a lot like the other Old Testament prophets who encouraged God’s anxious people to hang in there, Zephaniah uses very descriptive words about the glorious future that God has in mind for them. Zephaniah uses words like “sing aloud,” and “rejoice and exult.”


     The prophet tells the people to celebrate their faith in the present because the Lord is near! How near is the Lord? Near enough that we are already called to sing and rejoice. Now, that’s near!


     According to Zephaniah, this is not a time to “wait until your chickens are hatched,” as the old saying goes. Consider them hatched because the Lord is near!


     The other beautiful picture that Zephaniah offers us about wanting God’s gift is when he shares this good news with the people, “at that time, God will bring you home and our your fortunes will be restored.” This is what the people were wanting, knowing that God was providing them a home.


     I don’t know about you, but I want that for Christmas this year. I want to feel at home.  Feeling at home is probably the best Christmas gift we can ever receive.


     Penny and I like to watch house hunter type shows. We were watching one of these shows that takes place in the UK. The realtor shows couples three houses from which to pick. Once in a while, the couple ends up not choosing any of them because they’re just not the right house for them.


     A lot of times couples will choose the best house of the three even though the the house they choose doesn’t include everything on their checklist. After a lot of back and forth, they finally decide to buy one of those homes.


     But for one of the episodes, a couple found their dream house, the house they always wanted. The first two houses were OK, not great, but when they got to the 3rd house and before they even made it to the front door, the wife started tearing up, saying how beautiful the outside of the house was.


     Then they went inside the house, and she cried even more because it was the kitchen she always wanted and then the other rooms were just what she had always dreamed about for her future home. After they were done walking through the house, the realtor asked how much they thought the list price was.


     Thinking that it would be well over their budget, the realtor said that it was actually 50,000 lbs less than their budgeted amount. At that point, this woman broke down with even more tears of joy. She had found the house of her dreams. It was great for us to watch her expression.


     I think this is describing the joyful reaction that Zephaniah is saying that we can have even before we receive the gift. “Sing aloud, O daughter Zion; shout, O Israel! Rejoice and exult with all your heart, O daughter Jerusalem! At that time, I will bring you home.”


     No wonder that our New Testament lesson is from Philippians, chapter 4 where we read, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. The Lord is near.”


     It would be one thing if Paul would have written this while he was on vacation somewhere on a tropical beach, but he wrote these words while he was confined in a prison cell for his faith. The Apostle Paul knew that whether he was in prison or out of prison, the good news is that we are always at home with God. “The Lord is near,” Paul writes. No matter what we may be facing, the good news is that the Lord is near.


     It was during my sophomore year of college when I discovered what I had been wanting in my life. Struggling with poor grades and a feeling of no direction, I suddenly realized that what was missing in my life was right there in front of me, a relationship with God.


     Even though I had grown up in the church and was nurtured in the faith all my life, somewhere along the way, I had forgotten to allow God to be at the center of my life. And without God at the center of my life, I didn’t feel any sense of peace or purpose. I was feeling lost.


     And so, one day during my 2nd year in college, I literally fell to my knees in desperation and told God that from that point on, I would seek to allow God to lead the way and to be first in my life.


     When I got up from that prayer, what had been a huge weight on my shoulders was suddenly lifted. And that weight was replaced with an indescribable sense of peace and an assurance that I wasn’t alone. God was with me.


     It was through that difficult and challenging time during those first two years of college that I realized what I really, really wanted in life. I thought that I just wanted to know what my college major should be or what my career path should be, but I discovered what I really wanted the most in my life was a relationship with God. That was what I was missing the most in my life.


     After I said that prayer, I wanted to do what Zephaniah is inviting us to do and that is to sing aloud and to rejoice and exult with all of my heart. I wanted to do what the Apostle Paul wrote from a prison cell and that is to rejoice in the Lord always.


       Several years ago, during my daily devotions, I felt led to answer the spiritual question that we are each being asked today. “What do I really want?”


     I thought about all of the things that I thought I wanted as I was preparing for the new day ahead.  But after some time thinking there in my study about that question, it really came down to this. After some prayer and reflection, here is what I ended up writing down,


     “What do I want? I want a faith centered on Christ, informed through study, sustained by prayer, lifted in worship, fed through the Sacraments, strengthened in weakness, contextualized through experience, open to change, manifested through serving, and welcoming to all.”


     And here’s how I know that this is what I really wanted, because in that moment all of my anxieties, worries, and concerns were replaced by an overwhelming sense of God’s indescribable peace.


       I invite you sometime today or this week, to take some time and respond to this same important question, “What do you want?” We don’t ask ourselves this question nearly enough but it’s one of the most important questions we can ever ask ourselves. It’s also a good question to encourage other people to ask of themselves as well.


     When you know deep down what you really want, it can lead us to sing aloud and rejoice. And if that’s true for us now in the middle of December, just think what Christmas is going to be like when we will be invited to receive the greatest gift we can ever receive.


Sunday (Dec. 8/Advent) Pastoral Prayer


December 8, 2024 (Advent)
Beulah UMC & Oak Grove UMC

O God of hope and anticipation, we give you thanks for these four weeks of Advent to help us prepare for the greatest gift that we can ever receive, the coming of Jesus Christ into the world. As we light a new Advent candle each week, we can see more clearly what we truly want in this world, your presence in our lives.

 

Your presence that offers us joy even when we are going through a time of darkness in our lives, when we are facing the agonizing pain of a broken relationship, when we are stricken with health problems, when we are feeling empty and discouraged.

 

And this is what we want for those who are on our hearts and minds this day including those on our church’s prayer list, that they would know of your comforting, healing, and guiding presence.

 

Whenever we grow weary in our faith and wonder if you even hear our prayers, remind us to look back to this Sunday and the brightly lit pink candle that invites us to sing aloud and rejoice because you are with us in this season of waiting. You are with us in our time of exile where we long to be at home with you. You are with us in that prison cell where we feel isolated and alone. You are with us in the midst of any challenges we may be facing.

 

In these next few moments, we pause to silently reflect on today’s Advent question, “What do I truly want in life?” [PAUSE]

 

O God, take all of our wants that we have just now offered to you, and may we join them with the writer of our prayer hymn who offers what he really wants in this Season of Advent which is, “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel.” This is what we truly want as well even as we pray the prayer that Jesus taught us to say…

 

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Happy St. Nerdnuk’s Day!!!!!!




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(Monday After 2nd Sunday of Advent)

Monday, December 2, 2024

Sermon (Dec. 1/Advent) “Waiting for the Gift” by Rev. Robert McDowell


December 1, 2024 (Advent)
Beulah UMC & Oak Grove UMC

     As I’ve been preparing for our Advent series on “The Gift,” I’ve been remembering how I prepared for Christmas when I was a young kid.


     For me, preparing for Christmas didn’t begin on the first Sunday of Advent. It began whenever the Christmas edition of the Sears catalogue arrived in the mail. I would open it up to the toys section and dream about all the gifts I wanted Santa to bring me for Christmas.


     Toy soldiers, an electric football game, a hot wheels race track, a space ship, a nerf football, a real football, spinning tops, dart guns, a GI Joe, board games. And while lying on the floor looking at all of these toys, I would circle everything that I wanted. I did this all the time during those weeks leading up to Christmas!


     Of course, I never got all the Christmas gifts I wanted or circled in that catalogue, but somehow Santa knew which of those gifts to bring to my house on Christmas Eve. And then on Christmas morning… WOW! I was able to receive some of those gifts.


     In a similar kind of way, these four weeks leading up to Christmas give us the opportunity to focus on the most important Christmas gift we can ever receive which is the coming of Christ into the world.


     And so, during these four weeks, think of the Bible as the Sears catalogue that has just arrived in the mail. And instead of turning to the toys section, we will be turning to the pages of the Old and New Testaments and the various ways that they describe the gift that God has promised to give to us, the gift of God’s Son.

 

     During our Advent Series on “The Gift” our focus will be on four important ways that will help prepare to receive this gift and these include, four words that all begin with the letter, “w.”


     Wait, Want, Wonder, and Welcome. These are the ways that will help us receive all that God wants to give to us this Christmas.


     Today, our focus is on that first “w” word, “Wait.” What does it mean for us to wait for The Gift?


     For this, we open the Sears catalogue to two scripture readings and the first one that we heard read for us a little bit ago is from the Prophet, Jeremiah who lived 600 years before Jesus was born. What could this prophet who was alive several centuries before the time of Christ possibly have to say to us today in helping us to receive the gift of Christmas?


     Jeremiah was encouraging the people of God to patiently wait for better days. At the time, the people were being threatened by the Babylonian Empire and their advancing army. Difficult days lie ahead for them, but Jeremiah wants them to hang in there because God will see them through this challenging time.


     Jeremiah is teaching the people of God a very important life skill and one that we all need to learn as well, the skill of learning to wait. The problem is that the Prophet Jeremiah had the same problem that parents of young children have today. Even though parents know that Christmas morning will be a special time for their children and that four weeks isn’t really that long to wait for something, children have a different concept of time.

 

     When I was a child, it always felt like Christmas would never come! I remember attending worship services during the Advent Season and watching the pastor light one of the Advent candles each week. Instead of focusing on the candle that was being lit, I always focused on the other candles that were waiting to be lit!


      Why can’t we just light all of the candles at once and then we won’t have to wait at all? That’s what I wanted to say during those Advent Sundays.


     From my perspective as a child, the lighting of the Advent candles only made it seem that much longer to wait! Which is all the more reason that we have this tradition leading up to Christmas. The slow process of lighting one candle at a time teaches us to wait patiently for good things to come.


     Psychiatrist, Scott Peck, who has written the book, “The Road Less Travelled,” talks a lot about the very important life skill that we all need to learn again and again and again, and not just children, but especially when we are adults, the life skill of waiting.


     Scott Peck writes that “it’s important to know your limits and to delay gratification some of the time. This will reduce life’s pain.”


     The life skill of waiting involves delaying gratification. When I was a kid, the Christmas Sears catalogue did not really help me learn this life skill. All it did was show me toys that I didn’t even know that I wanted before I received that catalogue in the mail! I couldn’t wait for Christmas to come!


     So why do we need to wait? Why can’t we just go ahead and receive the gift of Christmas now?


     We are all in need of some kind of healing and transformation in our lives. And healing and transformation take time. It’s not an overnight process.     


     In our scripture reading from I Thessalonians, the Apostle Paul says something very interesting. He writes, “And may the Lord so strengthen your hearts in holiness that you may be blameless before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all the saints.”


     Isn’t it noteworthy that Paul doesn’t say that they had their act together, so all they need to do is wait for when Jesus comes again. Instead, he says that you may be blameless. That’s a future tense. “That you may be blameless.”


     Each one of us is a work in progress. Even on our best days, there are parts of us that are in need of healing and transformation. It’s true that when Jesus comes into our lives, we receive new life and salvation. That’s what we refer to as justification and being made right with God.    


     This isn’t what the Apostle Paul is referring to in I Thessalonians. When Paul says that we are to be blameless, he is referring to our life-long process of becoming holy and being the people that God has called us to be.


     This was why John Wesley, the founder of Methodism emphasized the importance of God’s sanctifying grace, God’s grace which seeks to sanctify us and lead us into a life of holiness. Sanctifying Grace is a life-long process where we are gradually shaped and molded into God’s likeness.


     It’s about taking time to reflect on those areas of our lives that we would often rather not think about like what to do with our short temper, not dealing with our need to grieve, our struggle with materialism, our way too busy lives, our addictions, our unhealthy behaviors, our impulsiveness, our impatience, our prejudices and prejudices we don’t even know that we have, our lack of empathy, our co-dependencies, our insecurities… and that’s just my personal list!


     But we’re all in this list somewhere and there are so many things that can be added.


     These four weeks of Advent remind us every year that if we want to receive the gift of Christmas, we first need to take a deep dive into the areas of our lives that are in need of transformation and healing.


     That’s why we have therapy. It’s why we have a prayer of confession and words of assurance every Sunday morning during worship. We need to be able to confess where we are broken and where we’ve missed the mark. It’s why the color of Advent is either purple or blue because we have blues and bruises in our lives that are in need of God’s healing love.


     And the wonderful thing about this is that we don’t need to be ashamed because each and every one of us needs this long season of Advent. This is a four-week journey for all of us.


     Several years ago, I stumbled upon a story that a preacher had shared in a sermon I heard. I sent an email to this pastor asking for his permission to use that same story in a sermon that I would be giving.


     I loved his response to my email. He said, “You are always welcome to use my stories. These stories aren’t original to me. The only thing that’s original with me is original sin.”


     Yes, that’s what we all have in common. Original sin. We all are broken. We live in a world that is broken. We’re all in the same boat. Advent is an important season for us to wait for the gift of Christmas because we need this time to look at those areas of our lives that need a makeover that only God can provide.


    We need those Jeremiahs who remind us that God will help us get through whatever challenges or brokenness that may come our way. Sometimes, we just need to wait before we can receive the gift that God has in mind for us.


     When I think of this time of waiting, I can’t help but to think of a young couple who attended a church I was serving. They were college students at the time and one of them sang in our choir.


     I was honored when they asked me in the fall of 2019 to officiate for their wedding which was scheduled for June of 2020 and was to be held in Michigan, which was her home state. We had our premarital counseling sessions and were all ready for the wedding but then the pandemic came.


     I think it was two months before their June wedding when they called me to see if I would officiate their wedding in Ohio instead due to the pandemic. It would just be the three of us and a photographer. After some more time to think about it, they decided to just postpone the wedding for another year.


     I remember how sad they were to know that they wouldn’t be able to get married and that they would need to wait a whole year. But it was remarkable how they handled all of this. They used that year to continue to grow in their love for each other.


     That June, their wedding was held on a picture-perfect day in Michigan with all of their family and friends gathered like they had originally envisioned. It was an incredible day of celebration.


     They were finally able to receive the gift of marriage after a long year of waiting. They used that time to become an even stronger couple.


     In fact, I would say that their wedding celebration was probably even more joy-filled because of that long wait. It made it that much more special.


     During these four weeks of Advent, let’s use this time of waiting to prepare ourselves to welcome the gift of Christmas. And as the Apostle Paul says, may this time of waiting strengthen our hearts in holiness.


Sunday (Dec. 1/Advent) Pastoral Prayer


December 1, 2024 (Advent)
Beulah UMC & Oak Grove UMC

O God, as we begin this Advent season of waiting, wanting, wondering, and welcoming your coming into the world, we pray along with the hymn writer, that when you do come, we would not despise your lowly birth. As Christmas morn is dawning, may we be found by the manger cradle, God’s Son, newborn to see.

 

On this day and throughout this first week of Advent, teach us what it means to wait patiently for Christmas. We wait because you are always faithful in keeping your promises. We wait because we need these four weeks to come to grips with our sins and our brokenness. We wait because we know that you are the source of forgiveness and wholeness.

 

As we wait for Christmas to come, help us to grow in what it means to be a people of prayer. May we use these next four week of waiting as an opportunity for us to spend more time with you and in our prayers for our community and world.

 

Even now, we offer our prayers for those on our church’s prayer list as well as other joys and concerns that are on our hearts and minds this day. We pray for peace in areas of our world where there is war and fear. We pray for justice where there is injustice. We pray for there to be enough food and water in places where there is so much hunger and famine.

 

O God, in this world that you love so much… so much that you were willing to send your only Son to be our Savior and Lord, we pray for your kingdom to come and for your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

 

As Christmas morn is slowly dawning upon us during these weeks of Advent, grant us patience in this time of waiting and even now the hope and confidence to pray these words that you taught us to say together…

 

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.